Fucking the wife of a jealous cuckold P/T 3 of 3

( the updated unedited version )

........once my cock was in Jake's hand I told him to put it in his mouth and suck. I made it very clear that I hate my cock being sucked too roughly and that his mouth should be well lubricated. Ok here goes thought me.......a man is about to suck my cock.....shit!!!. A virtually clean shaven male too. Being used to the site of a woman, more often that not with long flowing hair made this new image more than just a little strange. For Jake this was also a new experience. This was to be the fist time he sucked a cock, black or otherwise and he began to suck with relish.  Like a good cuck he kept his mouth well lubricated and moaned with pleasure as his mouth slid up and down my shaft. In my head I thought fuck that feels good but outwardly I stayed calm and told Jake he was a good boy and that I was pleased.

Good that it was, having my cock sucked by a cuckold is not why i was there. I told Jake that the time had come for me to fuck his wife and ordered him to fetch a condom. This he quickly did in a state of nervous excitement. I then told him to slip it on my cock and tease his loving wife with it.  This he also did obediently. 

But I wasn't going to fuck Jenny just yet. After all, her and her husband had kept me waiting for six months. So I made Jenny plead for me to fuck her. This she did and meant it. Bearing in mind how strong minded she is I knew this wouldn't be easy for her. Also since that occasion she has also made a point of asserting herself but at that very moment her desire to be fucked by me overwhelmed her. Finally I gave Jenny her wish.......hey lets face it I was hardly going to be reluctant ;-)

Jenny looked at me with pure naked desire as my cock penetrated her. With my eyes locked on to hers I slid the full length into her slowly and with a sense of purpose. Her pussy greeted me with wet enthusiasm. Oh how I love that sensation. Its a sensation I truly relish so I continued to fuck her slowly and deeply savoring the wetness and contours of her pussy on the full length of my cock. Pulling out to the tip then thrusting in again. All the way to the base with my body pressed hard against hers mmmmmm. All the while Jake was filming to capture the moment.

Every now and then I would lift my body so that all three of us could look and admire the contrast as my black cock penetrated Jenny's pale skin. I told Jake to take a good look at the hard thrusting black cock penetrating his loving wife. Oh fuck does that turn me on. Jake had been ordered by me to wear his wife's knickers for the evening and that he was not allowed to masturbate without explicit permission. As the evening went on I had to reprimand him on more than one occasion. 

Now my stance with couples new to cuckolding is not to be as strict as I can be, as a certain amount of adjustment does need to take place. However because of Jake's continuous disregard for my authority I made a point of punishing him the second time we met. Perhaps I will talk about that another time.

Anyway the evening went on with more sensual penetration. Jake sucking my cock during breaks and of course hard fucking. After all you can't call yourself a Bull if you don't also have the ability to pussy pound with evil intent. After a particularly intense period of hard fucking I pulled my cock out took off my condom and  spurted a jet of my warm seed over Jenny's body and face. 

The sight of my spunk spurting so hard and so far was too much for Jake and he completely lost control. So he pulled his cock out and spunked over his wife too. He then lent over to scoop up and swallow every bit of man cream that was splashed over Jenny's body........what could I do but burst out laughing. It was such a funny site. However orders had been disobeyed and boy did I punish him on our next meeting.

Jake later told me that he was consumed by jealousy the whole time. Although he had watched his wife fuck other men he had never seen her react so responsively and cum so readily. He said that watching her kiss me so passionately made him particularly jealous. He also told me that they would both regularly watch the footage he had filmed on a regular basis. A job well done me thinks ;-)

Swinging, cuckolding and the dreaded L word Part 2 of 3

The problem with people is that they are not robots.  Now this may seem like an obvious and bland statement but in the world of swinging and cuckolding it is both important and relevant. It is one thing to fantasise about consequence free sexual adventure but in fantasy that spanner in the works called emotion can often be underestimated when finally turning that fantasy into reality.

Until I see something to the contrary my experience tells me that there is no such thing as no strings attached sex. Emotions will always play a part even if at a very low level. It may be from you, the person you are having sex with or your partner. The key is to acknowledge it and deal with those emotions in a way that works best for you as an individual or as part of a couple. One coping strategy that used to irritate the hell out of me is the no kissing rule. I would still never knowingly meet a couple if not allowed to kiss the wife. But I do now have a more sympathetic understanding of the reasoning behind that stance.

Similarly I have to try not to be offended when invited to Gang Bangs by couples. Sure as a young buck I would have jumped at the opportunity but now as a more experienced mature Dom Bull I have to fight the compulsion not to be offended. I see myself as a lone wolf. Certainly not part of the pack. Actually let me be honest with you. Being invited to gang bangs does still offend me but I can understand how for some couples it creates a clearer distinction between their own love making and and fun they might have with others to enhance or compliment the sexual aspects of their relationship. So when asked I count to ten and fight down the urge to say "I'm a man not a f#*@ing prop you f##*ing ........." 1,2, 3..........easy boy lol....and yet the is always an exception to the rule. Late last year I went to a small swingers party in a warehouse close to Gatwick airport. Not a very busy event and there were only a handful of couple ladies and single guys but it worked.

Everyone was chilled out relaxed, friendly and conversational. At one point I went upstairs for a bit of a perv. A dominant husband was kissing and fingering his submissive wife. He momentarily paused to announce that anyone could join in and that the basic rule was that only one other person could touch her at any one time. Normally I would have switched off completely because nothing puts my back up more than being told what to do by a pushy, over eager or arrogant husband. But this couple had a friendly playful air about them. Also like me although a Dom her husband asserted his authority without the need to arrogantly puff out his chest. In the room there were probably about seven of us single guys in total.

Being me I kept back and observed the events unfolding. One by one and without that seedy air of desperation sometimes displayed by single guys. someone would go forward and present his cock to be sucked. Everyone stuck by the rules and when one was being sucked noone else tried to ruin the moment by crowding or going in for a cheap grope. The sub wife had a way about her that was infectious. Friendly enthusiastic and above all not cold and functional but genuinely engaging. At this point I just couldn't resist.

By the end of the night she had been thoroughly fucked by myself and two other black gents. I really wish I had taken down their numbers. Were I to ever to get into gangbangs again these are the kind of guys I wouldn't mind partnering with. Like me the other two had professional backgrounds and crucially neither  of the other two were selfishly competitive. Things flowed naturally and neither of us tried to keep the sexy lady to ourselves.....hmmm I must check that place out again ;-) Anyway....

In my many years of experience I have seen it time and time again. Emotions will always play a role, even the most outwardly hardened of swingers have a chink in their armour. It's just a case of knowing where to look and recognising it.

Although the above is not directly related to the topic in hand I think there is a connection. Since becoming part of a couple and although we are both free to do our own thing I have noticed a distinct and noticeable change in tone from the couples I relate to. The most noticeable being a wife who just couldn't get her head around the fact that my partner was happy for me continue seeing them. So much so that she concluded that we should stop seeing each other. Had I continued to see them but behind my partners back I suspect she would have been a lot happier.

Another interesting reaction came from the sexy Indian wife mentioned in previous blogs. Up until meeting my partner she would invite me to her home about once a month. However although we still chat it has now been over for months since she last invited me. One very interesting phrase she has come up with more that once when talking generally in a swinging chat room we frequent was the fact that she likes the the idea of a guy clamouring for her attention.  Perhaps me not being so readily available for impulsive meets shatters that illusion and ruins the dynamic for her.

Two emotional responses to my change in circumstances that arguably from a logical point of view make no sense at all. My theories about the reasons for these responses may or may not be right but what's not in doubt is the fact that emotions played their part.

So bearing in mind the fact my desire to meet couples isn't going anywhere how has that changed my approach? I will expand on that in p/t 3

Swinging, cuckolding and the dreaded L word Part 1 of 3

Anyone that knows me well will be shocked to discover that of late I have been spending my time not with someones wife but with a single woman. This was never a part of the plan. Not only for me but for her too.

The original idea from both our perspectives was to merely keep each other company on route to swinging events as we lived so close to each other. That plus the fact we share nerdy interest interests outside of the scene made for fun conversations that always made the time fly past.

Due to my personal circumstances, for the past two years I made a conscious effort to stay away from single women. Why? Partly due to past experiences. Simply put I didn't want to risk the emotional complications that can occur when you get on really well with a fuck buddy or friend with benefits. I hate the idea of hurting people even if unintentional.

Also, from a swinging perspective it was because I didn’t want to get close to anyone who wouldn’t understand my passionate interest in the cuckold lifestyle as a Bull. However this fiercely independent woman that I am now with has fundamentally altered my perspective. As a disciplined Bull I have always prided myself on my ability to master my emotions. MASTER being the key word. I have long felt that suppressing or denying ones emotions is an exercise in self deception and self harm. However I also strongly believe we have a choice in terms of how much we feed and water those same emotions.

As I have said before one of the things that attracted me to cuckolding couples as opposed to normal swinging is the potential for a deeper level of intimacy. However I have always been mindful never to feed and water the emotions involved to a level that would cause harm or hurt anyone involved.

Having said all that I’m not a robot so although not in a rush I was always hopeful of one day finding a couple that was of a mindset similar to mine and secure enough in their relationship to be open to the possibly that the lust and friendship may indeed turn to some form of love at some point and evolve into a poly type relationship.

But, as indicated in my last blog in reality I saw nothing to indicate that a scenario like that was even on the horizon. So imagine my surprise when almost by accident I find myself getting to know a single woman who not just accepts my passion for cuckolding couples but actually gets turned on by it. So much so that given the right circumstances she would jump at the chance to watch or join me when I’m having fun with a cuckold couple. With her being fully Bi, completely filthy and naturally dominant with women by nature the possibilities are endless.

I have no doubt that her fiercely untameable independent nature made me feel free and safe enough to feed and water my feelings for her and let them flourish into the depth of feeling that I have for her now. Likewise my acceptance of her nature and her knowledge that I have no desire to control her have had the same effect on her too.

That said. Since starting this relationship the reactions I have had from couples I already know has been rather interesting. Perhaps even negative and that surprised me at first. I have one or two half thought out theories which I will begin to explore further in part two....