Meeting a cuckold couple tonight P/T 3 of 3

So here I am in the home of a married white couple sat on a sofa adjacent to them. Ed is sat closest to me and his wife Diane is sat next to him. Prior to meeting I had indicated my preference of what kind of dress the Diane would be wearing. I asked the Ed to help his Diane pick out a dress that looked elegant yet sexy. I wanted her to look like a respectable wife. Now don’t get me wrong I love the site of a woman in hot provocative outfits. I call them “fuck me” dresses. But as a Bull meeting a couple for potentially ongoing pleasure I think it is better to take ones time and move at a steady pace. Besides which I get an extra special thrill when flirting with a woman that looks unattainable and no woman looks more unattainable than a respectable married women ;-)

So what did Diane have on? A sexy elegant black dress fully fashioned stockings with a black line going all the way up the back of her legs and black high heels. A classic sexy look that never fails to impress me and I made it very clear to both husband and wife that I was very impressed with the choice they had made for my benefit.

One thing I hear time and time again from couples is a dislike of pushy overbearing guys. Fortunately that is not in my nature, although I do have to be a little delicate when getting couples to prove they are genuine and that the wife is happy with the situation. I am aware that it can be perceived as being pushy when I ask a couple to prove they are real either by chatting on the phone with the wife or having a skype style chat with the wife present.

Anyway we spent the next half an hour or so having a normal get to know you conversation and touched upon some of our experiences in the world of swinging. All the while I made a point of being inclusive of both Ed and Diane  but every now and then I would look at the lovely Diane in the eyes. Always for just a little bit too long and always letting my eyes drop slowly and obviously down the length of her sexy body. I eventually moved to sit next to her and my timing must have been right because her had went directly to my thigh. She started rubbing up and down and occasionally touching my bulge while kissing both myself and Ed mmmmmm.

She then said she was uncomfortable on the sofa and suggested that we head for the marital bed. Oh how I love fucking married women in their own beds. I told her to lead the way and to walk slowly up the stairs so that I could get a good view of her sexily climbing towards the bedroom......and that is where details of this particular account ends but lets just say. We will be meeting again ;-)

Race and prejudice from a swinging black man's perspective P/T 1 of 2

Morning , One thing about me is that I am always thinking and analyzing. Some might argue that I over think and to a certain extent they might be right. But I enjoy it and I see it as an important part of my growth as a human being.

Anyway, when I woke up this morning I found myself going over a conversation that I had with a married white woman into the early hours. I wondered...yet again about the role race place in the world of swinging and cuckold, hot-wife fun in particular. My thoughts my be in danger of going off in all kinds of directions so please bear with me if I appear to ramble.

As a black man living in a white country it would be impossible not to have given racism a lot of thought. Also as a father I consider it my duty to prepare my children for what they will have to confront as they get older.

In my opinion racists are a rare breed but prejudice is everywhere and within all of us. Where does racism come from? I think it is the end result of prejudice when left unchallenged and is fed watered and nurtured by thoughts and ones environment. It can be a conscious act or perhaps more dangerously it can come from a perspective of self denial.

I always laugh when people say they don’t have a prejudiced bone in their body. To that I always argue then that person must love friends and strangers as much as their own family, which of course is nonsense. Prejudice is natural. Without it the tribalism around football teams would not exist.

So what do I do about it on a personal level? Well I long ago saw the link between thoughts and how they affect your daily interactions with people. For example when I’m hungry I’m a mean son of a bitch. But when fed and watered you could almost call me a card carrying pacifist lol

So anyway as a black man living in the UK I don’t go about in my daily life when dealing with people thinking ohh she is white, he is Asian etc etc. I am aware of it but it doesn't occupy my thoughts. Why because I firmly believe that if you have that kind of internal narration it affects how you deal with that person. It matters not if you think you are not verbalising it, those thoughts will always leak out one way or another. I can often tell when dealing with people when the person is focused too much on what I look like. The signs are so obvious and it makes me laugh to myself when people think they are able to mask it lol

It is my belief that even in this so called modern world we are not that different from animals and can all sense this even if not consciously aware.

For example. If I was to go to a job interview thinking. I’m going to be interviewed by a panel of white people...damn I’m not going to get this job. That vibe even if not verbalised would be sensed subconsciously by that panel and would very likely turn into a self fulfilling prophecy.

There is only one environment where try as I might I just can't shake a feeling of uneasiness and that is in the company of the police. I have nothing to hide and can rationalize as much as I like but just can't fully shake off that feeling. I have to consciously challenge my perceptions but it is not an easy task for me. I'm sure that the flip side is also true. Be it among some members of the police or non blacks who are simply not used to being around black people. However as I mentioned earlier. Being aware of this thought process is a very important step in combating the negative impact prejudice can have on ones thinking when left unchecked

So what role has race played in my life as a swinger? Up until recently, very little, I have been swinging on and off for years and the colour of the people I met was of very little importance to me. I merely celebrated the differences.

What has changed? Will let you know in part two ;-)

Meeting a cuckold couple tonight PT 2 of 3

...In an ideal world my preference would be to meet a genuine cuckold couple that lives within a 30 minute drive from my home. But search as I might and big as London is they always seem to live miles away. On paper Ed and Diane don't live that far away from me. However a 55 mile drive that should have taken just over an hour ended up taking the best part of two hours. Don't you just love Friday evening traffic with roadworks grrrr. 

That reminds me. Now, how can i put this delicately If you are a white couple that doesn't normally socialise with black men. There is a phenomenon that you need to aquatint yourself with. Acceptance of this state of affairs will reduce stress and lower your blood pressure.....its called black mans time....I'm sorry I just couldn't resist that one. If you have no idea what I am talking about, you soon will

Anyway, Ed and Diane  gave me the option of rescheduling but you know that saying. You never get a second chance to make a first impression so I soldiered on and finally got to their home just before 11PM. 

I was greeted at the door by Ed who led me to the living room. We exchanged a few pleasantries during which I caught a glimpse of his wife Diane from the corner on my eye.  She had that slightly self conscious walk women sometimes have when they are in a sexy outfit, feel self conscious and are aware that they are being watched.

When she finally came to the room I was relieved to discover that I found her attractive in person as well as in her pictures. Yes pictures are a good guide but I always reserve judgement until I meet someone in person.

Now for the next hurdle, will they like me too? Call me crazy but I love the getting to know you bit. I like to compare it to a job interview in which everyone is both the interviewer and interviewee or a strange three way dance.   Instinct and common sense has always told me that regardless of roles if you want to increase the chances of fucking another man's wife. Both husband and wife have to like you. Or at the very least feel comfortable in your company.

How do you achieve this? Well just be yourself. The good version of yourself.  Not the tired or hungry and irritable version of yourself but the version of you that is relaxed prepared, sets realistic goals and expects nothing. Doesn't sound much like a Bull does it. Well in my opinion, although it sounds contradictory a Bull should never go charging in, not right at the beginning anyway. Now I'm not here to give advice only suggestions. Besides which, what's right for me might not be right for you.

So what do I do? Well I respect the fact that I am potentially being welcomed into a couples relationship. With this in mind it is important to be attentive to both husband and wife as a form of acknowledgement. Besides which, listening and observing will reveal important pointers that may be invaluable at some point in the future or even that evening if you are really lucky ;-) ...

Meeting a cuckold couple tonight PT 1 of 3

After months of searching tonight could be the night I finally get to meet a genuine cuckold couple face to face. It has been something of an up hill task but the rewards are worth waiting for.

Ed and Diane are a white English couple and from the sound of it they too have been on a quest to find a Bull that matches their requirements. The planned setting is exactly what I prefer. Me going to their home and chatting with them on their living room sofa. It is the thought of being in another mans territory overtly seducing his wife that gives me a thrill. Part of the pleasure is also making my thoughts obvious by letting my eyes linger all over the Diane's body even during polite conversation.

Although I like to keep an open mind and never meet people with any kind of expectations I am optimistic...

My first overtly Bull adventure with a cuckold's wife

Just a few months ago I had my very first encounter that I would class as overtly cuckold.  I use the word overtly because it is not the first time I have met a married woman with the consent of her husband. However, in the past the fact that women were  being fucked by me with her husband’s consent was mealy incidental. All I wanted was a chance to fuck sexy women so if the husband did not mind, who was I to argue.

However on reflection, now that I am aware of the cuckold scene, some of my past encounters suddenly make a lot more sense and take on a whole new meaning.

Anyway back to the present. I met this woman for a drink and true to form I was the perfect gentleman. After the drink I drove her back to her home which is in a small village where black guys are not a common site. I mention this fact because in order not to attract attention she had me climbing over her garden wall to get into her house which was funny on so many levels.

Her husband who had been babysitting while she was with me remained unseen, as he had been instructed by her to stay upstairs. We went to the living room chatted for a little while longer and then got down to business. Knowing her husband was directly upstairs and listening was a real turn on. However things got really interesting when we started dirty talking. Any time I mentioned the fact that she was a married woman with a black cock inside her she got hornier and her pussy literally  got wetter. At this point I was hooked. The filthier I got the more she responded to my cock. Even more so when I referred to her white husband as not having the ability to satisfy her and that she was a black cock craving slut. All fantasy of course as i have no idea if it was the truth but oh boy did she love that.

I would tease her by gently caressing her pussy with the tip of my cock and made her beg me to fuck her hard with my hard black cock. Knowing her husband was upstairs listening added to the pleasure.

The next day I spoke to both of them and we were in agreement that the whole thing had been horny to the extreme.

On my next cuckold adventure the husband was in the room with us. That’s a blog for another day ;-)