As hinted at in the first part of this blog there is fantasy and there is reality. In my vision of the perfect scenario the Bull would be in a full time relationship with the couple and there would be several meets per month. However in the real world there are many obstacles that get in the way of this. Distance, children, chemistry and indeed nervousness from the couple about what impact the closeness of the Bull to the wife will have on their relationship.
Taking the above into account my ideal realistic desire would be to meet up to four couples on a regular basis. Each at least once a month and that at least one or two of the four be true cuckold lifestyle enthusiasts.
What realistic expectations would I have of a cuckold couple? Well nothing is set in stone because everyone is different but I like a couple where I am able to get to know the wife as well as the husband reasonably well over time. This is particularly important if you are only able to meet on a monthly basis.
Without reasonably frequent dialogue the momentum quickly dies away. This is a gentle warning to cuckold husbands. Your enthusiasm for being cuckolded, desire to discuss your fantasies and role as gatekeeper in the early stages can sometimes get in the way. Now don't get me wrong. I both understand and enjoy this process. After all if I don't get into the mind of the cuckold I will have no way of knowing how best to humiliate the cuckold in a way that is arousing and not annoying annoying to him.
So husbands, if you truly want to be cuckolded you need to control your rampant enthusiasm and give your wife the time and space to bond with the Bull. This leads me on neatly to one of the differences between my definition of what I regard as swinging and hot-wife as opposed to cuckold couples.
As a proud lone wolf Dom I have no interest in being a Bull for a couple that craves lots of black cock on a regular basis. This is not a moral judgement but a practical one. Indeed in the past I would occasionally reward my sub with a surprise gangbangs if I felt she had been a good girl. as a Dom Bull I strongly believe the importance of quality over quantity must be understood by all concerned if the arrangement is to blossom.
That's the thing about the cuckolding lifestyle you have to be prepared to invest in it if you want the rewards. Which means you have to look deep within yourself and ask yourself is this what I really want. Is it the cuckold lifestyle I seek or cuckold role-play? One has to take the journey with ones eyes open, with complete honesty and with patience.
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