The path to yet more pleasurable filth as a swinging couple PART 4

........as mentioned previously although I was happy to attend swinging events on a go with the flow basis, in order to increase the chances of us having possible foursome with couples, I felt that the occasional nudge to balance things out was required.

Our first couples only club event was a bit of a mixed success. We went to the VA club which is without doubt our favourite venue. It has a very large jaccuzi and all the play areas are out in the open. So if you are feeling in any way shy or self conscious this is not the right place to be. I first heard about this club when I was still single and my feelings about it were mixed. I had heard good things about it but wasn't sure how I would feel about the fact that there was no way of hiding yourself away for a more intimate experience.

However I need not have worried. I now feel that because there is nowhere to hide it adds to the sexy atmosphere of the club. In most clubs once it gets beyond midnight all the lockable areas are in use and often one of two things can happen. If you have been taking your time to get to know someone and now feel ready to have fun with them. Then trying to find a free area can be a rather frustrating mood killing experience.

Another thing that can sometimes happen is that it can make the club feel all but empty. So as a single male if you go on a night when not that many people attend and you haven't really clicked with anyone before the late hours, you can very quickly get bored. Why? because you're not having fun with anyone and you can't even have a little perv because everything is taking place behind locked doors.

However because The VA club is designed with an open layout. The is always something of interest to see. I also suspect that because there is nowhere to hide it brings out the exhibitionist in everyone and takes away some of the pressure that one might feel in other swinging establishments.

Anyway as indicated previously, our first visit to VA on a typical couples only night was a bit of a mixed bag. Without the presence of single males the atmosphere in a swinging club is very different. Couples are are lot more hesitant in engaging with each other. Although this is sometimes out of choice, more often than not it is due to shyness and not being sure how to engage with others.

You will find that men are much more respectful when approaching women. However I strongly suspect this has more to do with them not wanting to annoy their partner than them being miraculously more respectful of women than their single male counterparts. Either way, the mood is very different.

Were I to give advice to couples taking their first baby steps into swinging I would probably suggest that they go to a club on a couples night first. It is certainly a lot less intimidating. However for some it would be rather boring and something of an anti-climax.

Although we engaged a few couples in conversation the main source of excitement was the fact that we were able to fuck and watch other people fucking in close proximity to us. So it was more of a voyeuristic event than anything else.

Having said that there was one rather controversial moment that did put us to the test. At one point on one of the beds Foxy was giving me one of her legendary blow jobs. This was closely observed by a middle aged white couple who had come to sit right next to us to watch. As soon as Foxy paused for a break the woman leant over and started to eagerly suck my cock. she had clearly been waiting for an opportunity and she seized it.

It felt amazing but I was also keenly aware of the fact that the woman hadn't asked either of us for permission to suck. I pulled Foxy closer to me and quietly asked her if she was ok with the situation. I can't quite remember what she mumbled to me but her face was all the answer I needed. I'd be lying if I said no will power was needed but at that point I instantly told her to stop and we moved to another part of the club.

There we sat for a while and discussed what had happened. Basically Foxy's sentiment was very much like mine when we are dealing with single males in clubs. Had the lady shown her respect by engaging with her she would have been happy to let her give me a blow job. However because she felt ignored and disrespected there was no way she was going to be happy with the situation.

Influenced in part by that incident we never take anything for granted when involving others at clubs. There may one day be a time where an expression or slight gesture from the other will be enough for the other to know its ok to engage with another person or couple. But for now we feel it safest and best to expressly seek permission from the other.

Another thing that we learnt from that couples only night and others that we have attended is how much more difficult it is to find a couple to have fun with than it is single males. The law of averages means that it is easy to bump into at least one single male at a club who is half decent and you can have fun with. However with couples just leaving things to chance has significantly lower chance of success. Its no coincidence that the very first time we had a proper foursome it was with people already know to us. Now that was fun. I will tell you all about that adventure in the next part of this blog......

2014 and My Reflections of it as a Black Bull for Cuckold Couples

Well what can I say. 2014 has been an interesting year for me. Now that it is drawing to an end I find myself looking back and reflecting on its interesting developments. As with life in general there have been high points and moments that one might regard as challenging.

THE HIGH POINTS

As my mindset is closer to cuckolding couples as a lifestyle as opposed to role-play . As this is my preference I have only met a handful of couples this year. Each encounter had a cuckolding element. Some more so than others.

Of the couples I met, three stand out as couples that are close to my vision of what a good match would be for an on going relationship.

Of those three. Two stand out as couples I would want to  develop a proper relationship with. What were the key elements for me?

Crucially in both instances I get on well socially with both the husband and wife and both the husband and wife showed a willingness to take the time to get to know me and let me know them

THE PROMISE OF MORE

The fact that in both instances neither couple live close enough to make weekly visits an even remote possibility is bitter sweet.

Why weekly? Because ultimate goal  is to go bareback and blast my seed into the wife of a cuckold  on a frequent basis.  However ,  for safety reasons I don’t think it is fair on either the couple or myself to do that unless we are  meeting for periods of time on an exclusive basis. Therein lies my current frustration. I have had a taste of  how deliciously, wicked and pleasurable a relationship with a cuckold couple could be and I want more.

It feels like I have had the appetiser but the main meal is yet to come lol

THE NOT SO HIGH POINTS

It may not sound Bull like to some but I believe in being open about my feelings. I would expect it from any cuckold couple I meet and I expect it from myself.  Going the lifestyle route involves many complex emotions for all concerned and they should never be ignored or underestimated.

This year, because of my dedication to “the cause”  and looking for that special couple. I have  made a point of not getting too close to any single ladies.  Something of a challenge because it has meant I haven’t been able to do the normal things like go on a date, have a meal or watch a movie with someone close. 

With the right couple I would hope to have occasions when the cuckold is left at home while I take his wife for a night out . It might be to chill, a romantic meal or it could be a night introducing his wife to ….some friends. Not for him to know which unless we decide to share the details later  lol

THOUGHTS OF REFLECTION

Should I hold out, should I give myself a set time period or should I not block the potential for happiness with a single female counterpart. Many moons ago I did have a sub swinging partner. I have no doubt that the mental aspects of this sub Dom relationship planted the seed that has grown into my interest in nurturing, growing with and dominating cuckolds couples.

The hunger of the MILF with her cuckold husband

I'm writing this blog the morning after the night before partly to distract myself from having a wank and boy do I want one. But I'm not going to because I'm going to a BMFC swingers party tomorrow and if I am fortunate enough to meet a couple I get on well with if I want the wife to benefit from me being in a state of pure, lustful, raw hunger.

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​That is also partly why when I got an invite from  Sally to meet in a hotel last night I said no. I made a conscious decision some time ago not to let swinging and the cuckolding of couples be something that consumes too much of my free time.

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​Having said that something told me we'd get on well. Besides which Sally also lives relatively local and if you have read any of my Blogs on another site you will know that I have been particularly keen to find someone local to have fun with. So far none of my regulars live less than a 90 minute drive away (and that's when the roads are clear).

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​Anyway, I did say that I would be happy to meet Sally for a quick get to know you drink instead. She agreed and asked if I would like her to come alone or with her husband Phil. Being the kind of Bull that relishes fucking married women in front of their husbands I naturally said yes. We arranged to meet after 8 in a pub not too far from me and being a hot evening I turned up in jeans and a buttoned short sleeve shirt. 

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​I promise you I'm not vain but I did make a point of wearing something that would show off my arms and chest. As for my choice of jeans this may amuse you because it does me. I took a long break from swinging that lasted years. So when I started up again I was conscious that I had let myself go a bit and needed to get myself back in shape. Especially if I was going to be calling myself a Bull. Where am I going with this? Well partly because of my love of cycling and weight training in my youth I have always been blessed-cursed with big thighs. So no matter what I wear when I sit down my trousers are always tight around my thighs and they cause the material around the crotch to bunch up. Now that I am training again because my waist is getting smaller the crotch area is even bigger so I have had to get rid of some of my trousers. 

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​When I commute to work on the train and I'm very occasional feeling particularly mischievous I don't cover the false bulge and giggle to myself when I see ladies sheepishly looking away when I catch them staring. I know its silly and childish but it kills the time when I'm bored. Back to the pub.......

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​......Sally had asked me to text her on arrival so that her husband Phil could meet me outside and escort me to where she would be sitting. This he dutifully did. He let me to his wife who much to my delight looked better than her profile pictures. I'm not sure of her age but my guess is that she either in her late 40s or early 50s. She had on a very feminine summer dress, stockings and high heels. Medium length blonde hair and glasses fitting with her profession. The vision of a classy married milf with just the right amount of curves. I sat next to her as her husband went off to get me a drink.

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​We did the usual small talk and within minutes she was rubbing my thigh. I was a bit nervous at first because the pub was both busy and well lit. As we began to talk about more interesting things her hand moved to my cock. Which due to the bunching was easy for her to manipulate. She rubbed her palm across it and made it twitch with anticipation. All three of us maintained our civilized expressions but anyone looking would have known what was going on from the rhythmic movements of her arm.

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​By now the lustful tension was unbearable so Phil asked if I had time to spare to drive to some woods which were a short drive away. I said ....hell yes.....After a few moments to compose myself we all got up. I took his wife to my car and he went to his so that he could drive to the woods with me following.

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​The site of this hot MILF sat next to me in my car made it difficult to drive. Made worse by the fact her hand never lost contact with my cock through the jeans. She rubbed stroked and teased all the way to the woods.

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​We parked side by side and as soon as we parked and took our belts off we started kissing. Oh the hunger that came from her. It was intense. She quickly freed my cock while her husband watched form the other car. Then she did what she had been desperate to do all evening. She wrapped her lips around my cock and began to suck and lick with enthusiastic hunger. I opened the car door so her husband could get a better view. I told him to get closer and look into his wife's eyes as she sucked my hard black cock. This he did.

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​Things were getting too horny now. So although the intention was just to have a kiss and blow job. I told Sally to get out of the car and bend over leaning into the car. I handed the condom to Phil and told him to get it ready, slide it over my cock and guide me into his wife which he dutifully obeyed, his hands shook with excitement. He got the perfect view of my cock slowly entering his wife from behind mmmmmmm.

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​Oh the naughty thrill of it. A summers evening out doors. Making a wife plead as I thrust and telling a cuckold how much I love fucking his wife................I better stop here. I'm getting myself all worked up again and I need to get ready for work. Hope you like my blog.....

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