How I seduced a virgin white couple at an interracial swingers party P/T 2

.....the three of us walked into what was a very small dimly lit room but there was more than enough room for the three of us. There was a little bit of small talk but none of us wanted to waste time so we all stripped while chatting.

Although I am a naturally dominant by nature I strongly believe in allowing couples to acclimatise to the situation particularly when meeting me for the first time. I know that for some people the fantasy of an all guns blazing first time cuckolding session might sound like fun. But in my opinion, more often than not the priority should be to get used to each other and establish a level of trust first. Besides, isn't it always better to have something to look forward to?

My instincts told me to take a little step back and give each other the space to feel comfortable and get in the mood. They got onto the bed and Steve promptly attended to Sally's pussy with his mouth. After a short while I climbed onto the bed too and began to caress her soft white skin. The dim lighting of the room added to the sense of intimacy and eroticism of the situation. She turned her head towards me and caressed my chest at which point we began to kiss. I think this got Steve very excited because he started to fuck her. A big no no in my book as I never let cuckolds fuck their lady in my presence without requesting my permission. However as stated previously I do sometimes make an allowance for new couples.

I took the opportunity to reposition myself and slip my cock into Sally's mouth. Fully aware that with Steve now fucking her he would be getting a close up view of his partner’s lips and tongue navigating the contours of my hard black cock. As he thrusted he looked on with fascination. I knew exactly what he hoped for at this point. So I told him that as a cuckold it was his duty to serve me and show respect by sucking my cock. They both looked at each other and asked the other if it was ok to take this bold step for the very first time.

Both were fine so Sally pointed my cock towards Steve’s face. He slipped his mouth around my hard shaft without even the slightest bit of hesitation.........fuck!!! Having guys suck my cock in front of their wife or girlfriend gives me an almightily rush. Even as I type this my cock is throbbing and I can feel pre-cum oozing into my boxers. Both their lips slid along my ebony meat and occasionally their lips met....damn horny.

Unfortunately for Steve it was again all a bit too much so he had to stop fucking Sally and back down. I told him it was now time for me to take over. Normally at this point I would have instructed the cuckold to grab a condom and put it on my cock. But on this occasion I was way too eager to fuck his beloved partner and didn't want to risk nervous inexperienced hands trying to put a condom on me. I did however pause to ensure that his hand gripped my cock and that he would be the one to guide me into his lady for the very first time. To me it is a very important symbolic moment and I wanted him to play a part in it.

As is often the case and especially when I fuck a woman for the first time I teased Sally for a while before giving her the full length of my cock. Just the tip at first. Pausing from time to time and ever so gradually giving her a bit more of me. Her pussy responded by naturally lubricating the pathway. I have flexible hips so when I finally gave her my full length in a single authoritative thrust she gasped with pleasure.

What a night, we fucked in various positions, at one point with Sally riding me. I often struggle with lying down to let a woman do that. In part because it is such a horny site, my instinct is to throw a woman back down onto the bed and fuck with maximum intensity. I  just can't lay still, so I find myself thrusting my hips upwards looking into the woman's eyes and telling her to fuck me. Probably not the most dominant thing to say but it seems to spur women on......oh what a sight, Sally rode my rigid cock with so much enthusiasm mmmmmm. From time to time she would slow down to give Steve a passionate kiss. Oh how I love that, meeting couples in a committed relationship is that little bit more pleasurable. It is certainly a key element of what I refer to as real cuckolding.

After a bit more pleasurable grinding Sally dismounted and lay down to be fucked once more by Steve. Again the naughtiness of the experience was a bit too much for him so he had to stop again after not that many thrusts. More for me ;-)

Again I took over and began to fuck Sally with relish. Between the two of them they talked excitedly about my spunk so I knew it would soon be time for me back up my king of cum claims. After a while I told Sally that I was ready to cum and that I was about to spurt my full creamy load. I pulled my cock out and quickly removed the condom......just in time. Oh the joy of fucking another mans dear lady in front of them. I erupted and blasted my creamy load all over Sally's stomach and tits. Roaring with pleasure at the delicious wickedness of it all.

As I moved off the bed Steve didn't even hesitate to reclaim his dearest Sally. He got right on top of her not the least bit concerned about the fact that my sticky deposit was all over her body. Another good indicator of Steve's openness to experiment with his inner cuckold perhaps?

They fucked briefly and then lay happily on the bed before asking me if I wouldn't mind giving them a moment to themselves before joining me outside. I explained that I fully understood and that I would chat with them again a little later.

I spent the rest of the night socialising and being a bit of a voyeur. After all there is always something interesting to see at BMFC. When I next saw Steve and Sally they were sat on a sofa by the dance floor. As we chatted they did whet they have now been doing almost daily since that night we met almost two weeks ago. They expressed there happiness in having met me, thanked me for putting them so much at ease and for making their night such a pleasurable one. I am really enjoying getting to know this couple and looking forward to guiding them down the path of darkness.....the pleasurable kind.

How I seduced a virgin white couple at an interracial swingers party P/T 1

Although busy swinging clubs are not personally my preferred way of meeting new couples I do love socialising in an environment with like minded people. When in that frame of mind BlackManFanClub commonly known as BMFC is one of my favourite events to attend.  It is run by a lady that I have known for years and although our paths don't cross as often as they did in the early years it is always a pleasure to see her.

BMFC events are held every weekend in a number of locations around the country. Being the first Saturday of the month I knew that it would be their busiest night and at a venue which is my personal favourite. It is a fairly large venue with several places to have fun. Including a cinema room, dark zones, private areas, a glory hole room and big open play areas so most tastes are catered to.

I arrived at 9.30 knowing that a couple of friend and familiar faces would be attending. For the first hour or so most of my attention was on them. Although naturally I would survey the horizon from time to time, admiring the women in their sexy outfits. As the night developed a nice looking couple sat in a corner caught my eye. I looked over a number of times and couldn't believe that none of the other guys appeared to have approached them.

I made up my mind sat beside the lady and introduced myself to them. We struck up a conversation and Sally and Steve revealed that they were brand new swingers hoping to have their very first adventure. It was their third visit to a BMFC event but up until now they had not felt brave enough or felt the right connection with anyone to make that leap from fantasy to reality. New couples are often unsure of swinging etiquette so I gave them some guidance, reassurances and the benefit of my experience in terms of how to interact with single males.

Once we had built up a nice rapport I asked them what had drawn them to swinging in the first place and what they were hoping to get out of it. They told me that they had been watching interracial cuckold porn together for several months and that it had began to feature in their fantasies quite often when they were having sex. At that point I got an instant hard on and a switch in my head changed from gentleman to wolf.

As it was a large U shaped sofa and they were sitting in a corner it had been easy for me to focus my attention on the two of them when conversing. I now sat closer with my knee pressed gently into Sally's thigh. She didn't flinch and the body language from both her and Steve was still positive.

I probed them further with more questions in order to establish if there interests leaned more toward cuckolding or hot-wifing. They were not aware of the differences between the two so I was more than happy to explain. Steve explained that in daily life he was in a position of authority and had a deep desire to be dominated. Sally on the other hand had no intention of being told what to do. This put them very firmly in the cuckold camp and the evil wolfish grin on my face left them in no doubt that I liked what I was hearing.

Typical of so many newbie couples their black man fantasy included a desire for Sally to be fucked by a black man with a really big cock. I promptly explained that as a Bull with an average size cock I would not be able to make that particular fantasy come true but that on the flip side I was a hard spurting heavy cum king. That I had a sturdy black cock that could be used like training wheels for good practice  That got us all laughing and relaxed them even further.

When I explained that I generally use swinging parties to network and don't usually fuck, they both looked at me like Puss in Boots in Shrek. so I found myself reassuring them that if an opportunity presented itself that night and they felt relaxed enough I would be more than happy to oblige......hey being patient is one thing but sometimes you just have to strike while the iron is still hot.

After a short while Sally got up to use the ladies. Steve used it as an opportunity to ask If I would join them in one of the private rooms. I said that I would be more than happy to but also assured him that if at any point they had second thoughts I would back off gracefully, even if we were all naked and my cock was merely an inch away from Sally's pussy. He found that reassuring. However I also gave him a warning by informing him that as a cuckold once we got into the room I would be expecting him to submit to my authority by sucking my cock. He advised me that he would love to but as they were new to this he wasn't quite sure how Sally would react. However, he said that if it was initiated by me she would be more likely to go with it.

On Sally's return Steve informed her about our conversation. She liked what she heard but asked if I wouldn't mind if she popped out for a quick smoke first. Probably nerves I thought. Once she returned we headed for a  narrow corridor where two lockable rooms were located. As we waited I took the opportunity to take a better look at Sally......fuck!!! I thought. All dressed in black, tight black jeans, black heels and a tight black top that pushed her tits out towards me. How I managed to  stay looking calm and collected I don't know.

At this point I think Steve's natural cuckold instincts began to kick in. He offered to get us all a drink from the bar while we waited for a room to become vacant. Cuckold or not if any couple hopes to increase the chances of having a successful encounter with a single male, in my opinion they should always find a way for the male to conveniently disappear for a while so that the lady and single male can get a little more comfortable with each others company. While Steve was away we chatted a little but it was only on his return that I touched her waist and told her how deliciously sexy she was looking. This led to them embracing in a kiss......perfect.

Finally we heard the sound of one of the rooms being unlocked. At which point I began to mentally rub my hands together with glee......

Fucking the wife of a jealous cuckold P/T 3 of 3

( the updated unedited version )

........once my cock was in Jake's hand I told him to put it in his mouth and suck. I made it very clear that I hate my cock being sucked too roughly and that his mouth should be well lubricated. Ok here goes thought me.......a man is about to suck my cock.....shit!!!. A virtually clean shaven male too. Being used to the site of a woman, more often that not with long flowing hair made this new image more than just a little strange. For Jake this was also a new experience. This was to be the fist time he sucked a cock, black or otherwise and he began to suck with relish.  Like a good cuck he kept his mouth well lubricated and moaned with pleasure as his mouth slid up and down my shaft. In my head I thought fuck that feels good but outwardly I stayed calm and told Jake he was a good boy and that I was pleased.

Good that it was, having my cock sucked by a cuckold is not why i was there. I told Jake that the time had come for me to fuck his wife and ordered him to fetch a condom. This he quickly did in a state of nervous excitement. I then told him to slip it on my cock and tease his loving wife with it.  This he also did obediently. 

But I wasn't going to fuck Jenny just yet. After all, her and her husband had kept me waiting for six months. So I made Jenny plead for me to fuck her. This she did and meant it. Bearing in mind how strong minded she is I knew this wouldn't be easy for her. Also since that occasion she has also made a point of asserting herself but at that very moment her desire to be fucked by me overwhelmed her. Finally I gave Jenny her wish.......hey lets face it I was hardly going to be reluctant ;-)

Jenny looked at me with pure naked desire as my cock penetrated her. With my eyes locked on to hers I slid the full length into her slowly and with a sense of purpose. Her pussy greeted me with wet enthusiasm. Oh how I love that sensation. Its a sensation I truly relish so I continued to fuck her slowly and deeply savoring the wetness and contours of her pussy on the full length of my cock. Pulling out to the tip then thrusting in again. All the way to the base with my body pressed hard against hers mmmmmm. All the while Jake was filming to capture the moment.

Every now and then I would lift my body so that all three of us could look and admire the contrast as my black cock penetrated Jenny's pale skin. I told Jake to take a good look at the hard thrusting black cock penetrating his loving wife. Oh fuck does that turn me on. Jake had been ordered by me to wear his wife's knickers for the evening and that he was not allowed to masturbate without explicit permission. As the evening went on I had to reprimand him on more than one occasion. 

Now my stance with couples new to cuckolding is not to be as strict as I can be, as a certain amount of adjustment does need to take place. However because of Jake's continuous disregard for my authority I made a point of punishing him the second time we met. Perhaps I will talk about that another time.

Anyway the evening went on with more sensual penetration. Jake sucking my cock during breaks and of course hard fucking. After all you can't call yourself a Bull if you don't also have the ability to pussy pound with evil intent. After a particularly intense period of hard fucking I pulled my cock out took off my condom and  spurted a jet of my warm seed over Jenny's body and face. 

The sight of my spunk spurting so hard and so far was too much for Jake and he completely lost control. So he pulled his cock out and spunked over his wife too. He then lent over to scoop up and swallow every bit of man cream that was splashed over Jenny's body........what could I do but burst out laughing. It was such a funny site. However orders had been disobeyed and boy did I punish him on our next meeting.

Jake later told me that he was consumed by jealousy the whole time. Although he had watched his wife fuck other men he had never seen her react so responsively and cum so readily. He said that watching her kiss me so passionately made him particularly jealous. He also told me that they would both regularly watch the footage he had filmed on a regular basis. A job well done me thinks ;-)

Swinging, cuckolding and the dreaded L word Part 2 of 3

The problem with people is that they are not robots.  Now this may seem like an obvious and bland statement but in the world of swinging and cuckolding it is both important and relevant. It is one thing to fantasise about consequence free sexual adventure but in fantasy that spanner in the works called emotion can often be underestimated when finally turning that fantasy into reality.

Until I see something to the contrary my experience tells me that there is no such thing as no strings attached sex. Emotions will always play a part even if at a very low level. It may be from you, the person you are having sex with or your partner. The key is to acknowledge it and deal with those emotions in a way that works best for you as an individual or as part of a couple. One coping strategy that used to irritate the hell out of me is the no kissing rule. I would still never knowingly meet a couple if not allowed to kiss the wife. But I do now have a more sympathetic understanding of the reasoning behind that stance.

Similarly I have to try not to be offended when invited to Gang Bangs by couples. Sure as a young buck I would have jumped at the opportunity but now as a more experienced mature Dom Bull I have to fight the compulsion not to be offended. I see myself as a lone wolf. Certainly not part of the pack. Actually let me be honest with you. Being invited to gang bangs does still offend me but I can understand how for some couples it creates a clearer distinction between their own love making and and fun they might have with others to enhance or compliment the sexual aspects of their relationship. So when asked I count to ten and fight down the urge to say "I'm a man not a f#*@ing prop you f##*ing ........." 1,2, 3..........easy boy lol....and yet the is always an exception to the rule. Late last year I went to a small swingers party in a warehouse close to Gatwick airport. Not a very busy event and there were only a handful of couple ladies and single guys but it worked.

Everyone was chilled out relaxed, friendly and conversational. At one point I went upstairs for a bit of a perv. A dominant husband was kissing and fingering his submissive wife. He momentarily paused to announce that anyone could join in and that the basic rule was that only one other person could touch her at any one time. Normally I would have switched off completely because nothing puts my back up more than being told what to do by a pushy, over eager or arrogant husband. But this couple had a friendly playful air about them. Also like me although a Dom her husband asserted his authority without the need to arrogantly puff out his chest. In the room there were probably about seven of us single guys in total.

Being me I kept back and observed the events unfolding. One by one and without that seedy air of desperation sometimes displayed by single guys. someone would go forward and present his cock to be sucked. Everyone stuck by the rules and when one was being sucked noone else tried to ruin the moment by crowding or going in for a cheap grope. The sub wife had a way about her that was infectious. Friendly enthusiastic and above all not cold and functional but genuinely engaging. At this point I just couldn't resist.

By the end of the night she had been thoroughly fucked by myself and two other black gents. I really wish I had taken down their numbers. Were I to ever to get into gangbangs again these are the kind of guys I wouldn't mind partnering with. Like me the other two had professional backgrounds and crucially neither  of the other two were selfishly competitive. Things flowed naturally and neither of us tried to keep the sexy lady to ourselves.....hmmm I must check that place out again ;-) Anyway....

In my many years of experience I have seen it time and time again. Emotions will always play a role, even the most outwardly hardened of swingers have a chink in their armour. It's just a case of knowing where to look and recognising it.

Although the above is not directly related to the topic in hand I think there is a connection. Since becoming part of a couple and although we are both free to do our own thing I have noticed a distinct and noticeable change in tone from the couples I relate to. The most noticeable being a wife who just couldn't get her head around the fact that my partner was happy for me continue seeing them. So much so that she concluded that we should stop seeing each other. Had I continued to see them but behind my partners back I suspect she would have been a lot happier.

Another interesting reaction came from the sexy Indian wife mentioned in previous blogs. Up until meeting my partner she would invite me to her home about once a month. However although we still chat it has now been over for months since she last invited me. One very interesting phrase she has come up with more that once when talking generally in a swinging chat room we frequent was the fact that she likes the the idea of a guy clamouring for her attention.  Perhaps me not being so readily available for impulsive meets shatters that illusion and ruins the dynamic for her.

Two emotional responses to my change in circumstances that arguably from a logical point of view make no sense at all. My theories about the reasons for these responses may or may not be right but what's not in doubt is the fact that emotions played their part.

So bearing in mind the fact my desire to meet couples isn't going anywhere how has that changed my approach? I will expand on that in p/t 3

Swinging, cuckolding and the dreaded L word Part 1 of 3

Anyone that knows me well will be shocked to discover that of late I have been spending my time not with someones wife but with a single woman. This was never a part of the plan. Not only for me but for her too.

The original idea from both our perspectives was to merely keep each other company on route to swinging events as we lived so close to each other. That plus the fact we share nerdy interest interests outside of the scene made for fun conversations that always made the time fly past.

Due to my personal circumstances, for the past two years I made a conscious effort to stay away from single women. Why? Partly due to past experiences. Simply put I didn't want to risk the emotional complications that can occur when you get on really well with a fuck buddy or friend with benefits. I hate the idea of hurting people even if unintentional.

Also, from a swinging perspective it was because I didn’t want to get close to anyone who wouldn’t understand my passionate interest in the cuckold lifestyle as a Bull. However this fiercely independent woman that I am now with has fundamentally altered my perspective. As a disciplined Bull I have always prided myself on my ability to master my emotions. MASTER being the key word. I have long felt that suppressing or denying ones emotions is an exercise in self deception and self harm. However I also strongly believe we have a choice in terms of how much we feed and water those same emotions.

As I have said before one of the things that attracted me to cuckolding couples as opposed to normal swinging is the potential for a deeper level of intimacy. However I have always been mindful never to feed and water the emotions involved to a level that would cause harm or hurt anyone involved.

Having said all that I’m not a robot so although not in a rush I was always hopeful of one day finding a couple that was of a mindset similar to mine and secure enough in their relationship to be open to the possibly that the lust and friendship may indeed turn to some form of love at some point and evolve into a poly type relationship.

But, as indicated in my last blog in reality I saw nothing to indicate that a scenario like that was even on the horizon. So imagine my surprise when almost by accident I find myself getting to know a single woman who not just accepts my passion for cuckolding couples but actually gets turned on by it. So much so that given the right circumstances she would jump at the chance to watch or join me when I’m having fun with a cuckold couple. With her being fully Bi, completely filthy and naturally dominant with women by nature the possibilities are endless.

I have no doubt that her fiercely untameable independent nature made me feel free and safe enough to feed and water my feelings for her and let them flourish into the depth of feeling that I have for her now. Likewise my acceptance of her nature and her knowledge that I have no desire to control her have had the same effect on her too.

That said. Since starting this relationship the reactions I have had from couples I already know has been rather interesting. Perhaps even negative and that surprised me at first. I have one or two half thought out theories which I will begin to explore further in part two....

Bulls need TLC too !!

2014 Was a good year for me and it was a year I put to good use. I'm one of those people that likes to broaden and deepen my knowledge when something is of great interest to me. The cuckolding of couples is one of those things.  The more I got to know couples both in conversation and in person the more it fascinated me. As a result last year was dedicated to the purpose of finding the cuckold version of sole mates. I had a vision of a beautiful three way friendship full of trust in which the cuckold would instinctively sense when it was time to take a back seat know his place and facilitate the needs of myself and his wife for pleasure.

In reality I never did meet a couple where the condition were such that we could truly commit to each other and explore the richness of such a delicious meeting of minds and bodies. More often than not it was due to distance or the couple not having enough time available for me to consider any form of exclusivity, or freely going bareback with the wife.

During this time I also made a conscious effort not to get too close to any single ladies. Why because I didn't want anything to distract me from my goal or cause complications if the right couple suddenly came into the picture. Although a potentially good strategy it is one that comes with a down side.

Now some of you may feel that when a man shares his feelings it is somehow unmanly. In my mind that is a whole lot of bullshit. In no small part due to my experience as a Dom I long ago concluded that the sharing of feelings is crucial in creating trust and understanding between a Dom and a sub. I have and will always most certainly apply these principles when dealing with cuckold couples too.

As much as I relish the subtle and sometimes overt humiliation of cuckolds my DNA is also hardwired with a need to give and receive soppy intimate kisses and cuddles too So far this has turned into something of a challenge with the  cuckold couple that I met in 2014.

In my vision of the perfect cuckold couple dynamic, for me there is variety. Sometime the cuckold is there to serve, sometimes he can only watch. Sometimes he can only listen from another room and sometimes he is not there at all. I see this as ideal for a number of reasons. Variety keeps things interesting and uncertainty for the cuckold adds to the sexual tension and makes the cuckold appreciate his treats when he has been good enough to deserve them. 

Also on a practical level if as a cuckold you genuinely want a Bull to be interested in your wife for a sustained period of time you must learn the value of stepping back and allowing them to spend quality time together.

This is where it gets so tricky. After all cuckolds are still men and as a man I can understand the protective instinct a man has for his wife. He wants to protect her from both physical and mental harm. Plus there is always natural jealousy. what if the Bull tries to take the wife away. What if the wife secretly wants a way out. all kinds of things can make a person feel nervous, uncertain or insecure. A cuckold has to navigate through these all to human thoughts along side the overpowering desire to be cuckolded.

As it is with a Dom and a Sub a good Bull understand that power and authority is willingly handed over it can't be forced and this can only happen when there is good communication, trust mutual respect and boundaries firmly in place.

However, speaking from a Dom Bulls perspective.....my perspective. If you truly want to hold a Bulls attention. If regular meets are truly your desire, it is essential that conditions are in place to allow a bond to develop between the wife and the Bull. Nothing makes me loose interest in a couple quicker than an inaccessible wife. I always make a point of getting to know the cuckold. However, for me there also has to be some kind of mechanism that allows me to get to know and hopefully bond with the wife. Private txt or phone chats is the bare minimum for me. An occasional night alone with her is even better.

So if as a couple the thought of the wife out alone with the Bull is unthinkable even after a several meets a reality check is in order. I would argue that real cuckolding isn't for you. My suggestion would be to stick to swinging and hot-wife fun and steer clear of genuine Bulls. 

My own reality check has been the acceptance that many if not most couples are not ready to take that leap and leave the Bull free to bond with the wife. For some it will never happen and for others it is a growth and trust process that would take time. However as a single male I came to the conclusion that it wasn't enough. Quiet intimate moments are important to me too. So this year I decided to open my eyes and no longer block out other opportunities for pleasure.

Be it luck or fate I have now been fortunate enough to meet a fiercely independent single lady who is turning out to be the ideal companion for me. Like me she has an absolutely filthy imaginative mind but along with that she is caring and like me really enjoys long moments of sensual kisses and cuddles. We are both committed to having fun both together and separately. Plus she is genuinely supportive about my passion for cuckold couples. So much so that she would quite happily wave my cock in a cuckold's face and tease him with it lol......yep I see 2015 opening up with a wealth of opportunities for pleasure where my interests and those of my new friend can cross over and blend in an oh so deliciously naughty fashion........